You know that one person who at first glance doesn't look like they are all that. But then you interact with them and want to jump their bones? They just have this energy about them that is irresistable which you struggle with because they aren't even your "type".
I've learned in my lifetime not to judge a book by it's cover for a reason. This is the reason. They are sexy b's.
Confidence is sexy. Knowledge is sexy. Experimenting is sexy. Being comfortable with your body is sexy as all H E double hockey sticks.
Today we are so much more accepting of different body types, different sizes of all things. In fact, being different is now attractive. The mold has been broken and it's a beautiful thing. Literally.
We have "big girls" proudlly flaunting their booties. People hand in hand with whomever they choose and proud of it. We have acceptance and with that comes an amazing amount of freedom.
And freedom? You guessed it. SEXY.
So you wanna be a sexy b? Finish reading this life changing blog of mine and then get your butt to a full length mirror. Do the following:
Get naked if you want.
Take inventory. Say out loud what you like about yourself. Only what you like and say it with a smile. A sexy one. It might take a few tries but do it anyway.
Choose to accentuate those very things that you like, maybe one or maybe all depending on your mood.
Feel in your mind that you could walk out in ridiculous outfit right now and get a compliment. The goal here is not to walk out in a ridiculous outfit right now and get a compliment. It is to know that you have it goin' on. Strong. And that your energy is what people will see and feel. And your energy is sexy.
Play. Bust out some makeup and hair product. Get out something sexy to put on and for the love of God put on some inspiring music.
Practice moving. Practice floooooowing. Really get into it and watch yourself. You might look stupid but that's ok as long as you are smiling and are happy. Plus you have the added bonus of knowing not to try that move in public now.
Being sexy means you feel good about yourself, you know your worth and you don't want to miss out on life and it's amazing experiences.